Japanese Greetings
Two things surprise beginners here. Sayonara is not what people say when leaving the office, and the most important phrase on this page has no English equivalent at all.
Arriving
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こんにちは konnichiwa
kohn-nee-chee-wah
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Hello, good afternoon
Written with は but said wa. Roughly 11am to 5pm
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おはようございます ohayō gozaimasu
oh-hah-YOH goh-zye-mahs
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Good morning
Drop gozaimasu with friends
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こんばんは konbanwa
kohn-bahn-wah
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Good evening
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はじめまして hajimemashite
hah-jee-meh-MASH-teh
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Nice to meet you
Only ever on a first meeting
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よろしくお願いします yoroshiku onegaishimasu
yoh-ROH-shee-koo oh-neh-guy-shee-mahs
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Please treat me well
No English equivalent. See the note below
Leaving
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またね mata ne
MAH-tah neh
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See you
The everyday goodbye between friends
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じゃあね jā ne
jah neh
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Bye then
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また明日 mata ashita
MAH-tah ah-SHTAH
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See you tomorrow
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さようなら sayōnara
sah-YOH-nah-rah
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Goodbye
Final and heavy. Not what you say leaving work
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お疲れ様です otsukaresama desu
oh-tsoo-kah-reh-sah-mah dess
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Thank you for your work
What colleagues actually say when leaving
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おやすみなさい oyasuminasai
oh-yah-soo-mee-nah-sigh
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Good night
Only when someone is going to bed
Coming and going from home
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いってきます ittekimasu
eet-teh-kee-mahs
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I'm off
Said by the person leaving the house
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いってらっしゃい itterasshai
eet-teh-RAH-shy
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Go and come back
The reply from whoever stays
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ただいま tadaima
tah-DYE-mah
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I'm home
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おかえりなさい okaerinasai
oh-kah-eh-ree-nah-sigh
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Welcome back
The reply to tadaima
Sayonara, and the phrase with no translation
Sayōnara carries a sense of parting for a long time. Japanese people rarely use it with colleagues or friends they will see tomorrow; schoolchildren say it to teachers, and it turns up when someone is genuinely going away.
For an ordinary goodbye, mata ne with friends and otsukaresama desu at work do almost all the work.
Yoroshiku onegaishimasu is the one to learn properly. It roughly means please look after me, please treat this well, I look forward to working with you, and thank you in advance, all at once. It closes an introduction, opens an email, and follows any request. There is no English sentence that covers it, and leaving it out of a first meeting is noticeable.
Greetings come in pairs at home. Ittekimasu is answered with itterasshai, and tadaima with okaerinasai, every time.