Polite Phrases in Portuguese
Portuguese politeness is warm and used often. Two things decide whether you sound natural: matching obrigado to yourself, and knowing which apology fits.
Please and thank you
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por favor
poor fah-VOR
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please
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obrigado
oh-bree-GAH-doo
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thank you
Said by a man, whoever he is thanking
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obrigada
oh-bree-GAH-dah
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thank you
Said by a woman
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muito obrigado
MOOY-too oh-bree-GAH-doo
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thank you very much
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de nada
jee NAH-dah
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you're welcome
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imagina
ee-mah-ZHEE-nah
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don't mention it
Very Brazilian and very common
Excusing yourself and apologising
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com licença
kohng lee-SEN-sah
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excuse me
Before passing someone, or leaving a room
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desculpa
des-KOOL-pah
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sorry
Informal. desculpe is the formal version
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sinto muito
SEEN-too MOOY-too
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I am very sorry
For bad news and real apologies
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sem problema
sang proh-BLEH-mah
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no problem
Phrases for the moment
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saúde
sah-OO-jee
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bless you, cheers
One word for a sneeze and a toast. It means health
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bom apetite
bohng ah-peh-CHEE-chee
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enjoy your meal
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parabéns
pah-rah-BANGS
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congratulations
Also what you say for a birthday
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boa sorte
BOH-ah SOR-chee
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good luck
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boa viagem
BOH-ah vee-AH-zhang
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have a good trip
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melhoras
meh-LYOH-rahs
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get well soon
Com licença or desculpa
Com licença comes before the act: you are about to squeeze past, reach across someone, or leave the table.
Desculpa comes after it: you already bumped into someone, or you are interrupting.
Sinto muito is heavier than both and belongs with bad news, not with brushing past a stranger.
Obrigado and obrigada agree with the speaker. A woman thanking a man still says obrigada. This is worth over-practising, because it is the giveaway that separates a beginner from someone who has been paying attention.